Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Proud Mama

I didn't take the traditional path that most woman take. I am a career woman. I didn't plan it. It just happened. I am thirty nine years old and the epitome of the single woman. Bridgit Jones's Diary is my favorite movie. I have a cat. In social situations, it can make me feel like the minority. I remember going out to lunch with my colleagues and the parents were exchanging stories about their children. I deadpanned with "my cat coughed up a fur ball the other day."





Every year when Mother's Day comes around, I feel like I'm missing out on something. This year, I've decided to write about what Mother's Day means to me.

Most importantly, it is an opportunity to celebrate my mother. We haven't always seen eye to eye, but I am extremely grateful she is in my life. I admire her for always supporting me in my endeavors. I wish her the best of health.

Mother's Day also reinforces my love for my kitty Bella. She is a fiesty, persitant, and lovable creature. I adopted her three years ago this May. I remember the day that I adopted her. She was hiding under the passenger seat of her owner's car. All I could see was this blonde face with these gorgeous blue eyes and cute pink nose. It was love at first sight. How could I reject her?

Lastly, Mother's Day reminds me of my connection with Mother Nature. I have been fortunate to be blessed with a green thumb. For the last three months, I have been pouring my heart and soul into cultivating the following plants from seed:

Coleus

Amaranthus

Celosia

Cosmos

Zinnea




Granted, I may not be the traditional "mom", but I consider myself a mom in my own way. Happy Mother's Day!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I am in the same boat as you.... and you know what, I am Misty's mom. Our pets are just as much our children as we love them as if they are human. I know we both couldn't imagine our lives without them!!!

Life is a funny thing, so many follow the same path, but there are a few that take a different path than most and cheers to that! We have a perception of what we are supposed to do and how our life is supposed to be but that doesn't mean that it is always the right path for everyone! It is okay to not be the masses, and it is OK to be an individual... I am finding that one out on my own.

Happy Mothers Day Tiffany. You are a wonderful beautiful woman! Don't forget that.